I find that it is the most important thing to be happy in yourself, and that is what I’m trying to work on. After being let down by someone, it takes a while to get up and tell yourself that you’re great and didn’t deserve to be treated like you were and that you deserve the absolute world.
I am also realising how important it is to have a stable friendship group around. After losing contact with a few of my close friends through no fault of anyone, and finally coming back in to contact with them, it makes you realise how lost it can make a person when they have no one to go to when they aren’t feeling like themselves. Which is exactly how I’m feeling. I can’t express how important it is to keep in contact with people that you get along with, making the effort to go and see them, phone them or even just send them a little text.